THE LADIES MESSAGE

This article is about our lives,body,prestige and respect. We are the cause of whatever happens to us,you may look flamboyant and beautiful but may not have the ability to think this out. A woman is entitled to a certain prestige from birth but it is  left to her from that moment to keep this prestige and respect instilled in her if she wants. Someone once said to;
              "Ladies take care of yourselves because some guys will use you, use your body,your heart,your brain and your soul join, damage your reputation and finally marry a beautiful wife and become born again. As if that is not enough use you as testimony in Church."
But I will ask a question; who did this man get married to? A woman just like yourself. Are women not part of the testimonial congregation? Of course there are, my point here is it is not the wife's fault nor the congregation's, it is you the Lady who littered and gave yourself freely to be used as he likes,this makes you feel cheap right now right?
              Well, I don't know how or what you feel about 'sex', but I am negative towards sex before marriage,this is not because I am too perfect or righteous in all ramification of life but I just want to say that we all should avoid this things. I want to speak mainly psychologically on this topic this is because all of this is in the mind of the person she starts anything and no one can stop their mind from functioning. Apart from the fact that it is also written in the Bible that sex before marriage is wrong. No matter how old you are as a woman, you are entitled to your body and therefore responsible for whatever happens to it.
               I will like to start this conversation by asking a question of which you would answer to yourself with absolute truth and sincerity. How do you come out in the public with so much confidence and pride when you know that you just finished doing things with a guy who is not your husband? How do you face your parents knowing that you have been defiled willingly out of wedlock? Am sorry to sound so raw,but can you with a sincere heart answer this questions? You see,all this questions don't mean anything to you but it actually mean a lot. In my research, I got to know that the only thing that a woman really deserves and is entitled to is her prestige and respect. Would it be bad if as a woman you can come out with your heads up high in the sky and mind high with prestige knowing that there is no man out there praising himself on your behalf? I want you to see this with me that when people respect you,you can achieve just anything and even go to places. It does not matter if you have been having sex for a long time out of wedlock with different men or just one man that you're not married to, you can still stand your ground as a woman. Some may be lucky to have respect from guys after sleeping with them but will not have the prestige because even this saying has it all that 'respect is reciprocal' which mean that if you are able to respect your body, every other person would definitely respect it. I laugh whenever I hear some ladies say "I have just one boyfriend and I sleep with him alone",because, my sister you can never be sure that this one guy you call your boyfriend \fiancee is definitely going to marry you, no matter who he is and how kind he is it is never certain because the both of you are just trying your luck in the relationship to see if you are suited for each other and when it doesn't work out you break out. Let us respect ourselves and our body and stop him(the guy who is not your husband) what he does not deserve because you are obviously a costly jewel "I mean every woman is". When you sleep with him during your relationship and there is a break up between you too and you decided to move on with your life leaving the past behind and you met someone else that you like then you started a new relationship with this new guy and you broke up again and again till like in a year you have at least five boyfriends or more and you keep sleeping with each of them several times then there is no different between you and a prostitute, it's seems odd right? But its the truth the only possible difference that there could be between you and a prostitute is they get paid for their services but you don't instead they give you little change to take care of yourself and you think that is a life? Get out of the box and leave that mentality alone no man can give you what your brain can give to you,that's for a fact if he wants you so badly then he should get married to you. No matter how nice a guy is after sleeping with him to him you're just a piece of shit who has given out her prestige and respect so cheaply for nothing or limiting things. It is not too late to stop because that is the only solution to stop and not to that again because it is really appalling and rampered this days and people don't see it as anything anymore. When you get into a relationship this days and don't have a sex people believe that you're not normal and they tag you to be weird but you should stand your ground because there is really nothing to gain in it. This matter is serious to the extent that even little girls in secondary schools growing up see their aunties and people around them doing this kind of things may not understand. If you don't have a prestige then what else do you have?
                  However, we all should love our prestige and respect and hold it firm and never let anyone penetrate through it because, like I said from the start that it is a psychological thing and we should hold this idea in our minds not in the body or heart because the body is weak and the mind is stronger than the body in most cases. The most interesting part of the prestige thing is even if a person is eventually raped innocently her prestige still remains with her because she never gave in willingly. I am Isaac Faith an example of a person with prestige and respect no matter what by the grace of God.I hope that I have convinced so many minds through this article. Thanks.