LET'S TALK INTIMACY...

Intimacy according to the oxford dictionary is the state of having a close personal relationship with someone. There are five types of intimacy which are;
Emotional Intimacy
Intellectual Intimacy
Physical Intimacy
Experiential Intimacy
Spiritual Intimacy
For people to be intimate all the types of intimacy must be present for the relationship  to get  to its fullest capacity, intimacy is not sex, you could be intimate with a very close friend  depending on how you choose to see it. The emotions of the two partners must be very active in the relationship to achieve it’s aim, intellectually they should be strong for the communication to go well, physically the both of them should be able to agree, they both should hide nothing from each other  and  they should both know where they are coming from and where they are going, the two partners must also know the word of God  and the right thing to do at the right time. Where there is love, any of this can be possible.

Intimacy is the closeness between two people who understands each other, have pure passion for each other, love naturally and care deeply for each other. It’s hard to find the true person to get intimate with, it’s hard to find the realest person to be intimate with but when found could mean the world to you. I’ve seen how intimacy works, how it can make you tell your secrets to that person you can totally trust, without fear that it could leak out to the public. Intimacy has made me understand that you can love someone so much without seeking for the canal knowledge of the person, that kind of love flows like a wild fire, it’s true and fears nothing; it comes out freely from the heart and connects passionately to the other person in a beautiful way. Intimacy should not be under or overrated at any point it goes beyond just sex, it’s a strong sensational feeling, the two parties allow themself to be free to feel anything while they are together, and they allow the love flow very smoothly.

Love has been abused of its true meaning, many don’t believe in love anymore. Intimacy has been reduced to just sex, it has become absent in so many lives. People become mechanical and polite in convenient, hide their vulnerable part just to appear strong before their partners but should in real sense be free and open to the partner, there should be real love that can see through the heart between people  who love each other.
Intimacy in short and simple words is love, truth,  care, close affection and consideration between two people, it is peaceful and holds no grudges , it should be allowed to flow smoothly through the heart, it forgive even without apology, it is magical, it is called LOVE.
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT INTIMACY......???  LET’S TALK ABOUT IT….....

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