MISCONCEPTIONS.

A misconception is a conclusion that's wrong because it's based on faulty thinking or facts that are wrong. Misconceptions are mostly seen in the among narrow minded people, they always want to see things in their own ways and refused to go out of their box or learn new things.
My experience in a misconception;
On my way to a Broadway show, all dressed up and ready to see the play, I missed my way and asked around how to get there. Being a simple person I had not put on makeups or heels, just my sneakers, a Jean and top. I finally found an old man who directed me to the venue and as I went on I saw a very handsome, tall, black and young man well dressed. He came close to start up a conversation and to walk me down to the place as he must have heard the old man directing me, he asked for my name and number and I gave him. I was somewhat excited until he said:
"You're very beautiful and shapeful. I'd not like to date you but would love you to do a gig for me. You'll have to sleep with some white folks, get paid, give me my share and get off the trail with no feelings attached."
At the moment I felt like throwing up, I looked at myself again to know if I had been roughly dressed or something. But there's nothing wrong with what I'm wearing!. It all seemed like a dream to me but then we had gotten to the venue of the show. First thing I did was to smile and tell him:
"It's nice to meet you,  thanks for your company"
He then shaked my hands and said;
" Call me Pastor Kelvin" with a smile on his face."
He then head off but ran back to whisper into my ear:
" This should be between us Faith, no one even your closest friends should know about this" 😲
He finally left and never called.
I stood there for a while pondering at what has just happened and trying to put my thoughts together before getting into the place.
All I could say was; " what an experience "😔
I mean, I checked myself very well before leaving the house and didn't find myself looking like a prostitute and I come out to this 😩
I've come to the conclusion that it's nothing but just a misconception. I am just a normal and simple lady who do not like getting involved with things that may affect my future, though it's not written on my face or anyone's face but I believe that people should have conversations with others in other to know who they are properly before making a decision about who they could be and no one is even permitted to judge anyone.
This Pastor Kelvin made me understand that there can be misconceptions at any point in our lives. It's only normal because you can't expect everyone to think the same way as you do but the way you handle them matters a lot and that's for a fact. Understand people, understand places, understand issues and so many other things before reaching a conclusion in other not to be cut up in a misconception. Thanks and a Merry Christmas in advance from Faith 💖